The Wronged

A few days back I was thinking of the BAD things I’ve done in life, to people I’ve really cared for. You know what I’m talking about. Those thoughtless actions that you take out of selfishness or in some weird concept of righteousness.

When I think about them I feel so guilty about it that I wonder how I ever managed to face those people again, let alone apologize. But apologize I did. Every time I could that is.

So the thought formed that – Sometimes one might be too ashamed of their actions to apologize outright.

Then yesterday, I was reading WHITEOUT by Ken Follet and one of the characters says, “You never forgive those whom you have wronged.”

It occurred to me, this is the perfect corollary to what I was thinking just last week.

When an apology is expected of those people who behave in the most despicable ways, that would probably never happen. For in Their twisted minds it’s They who are the hurt party. It’s impossible to accept or acknowledge their actions. Forgiveness will never be forthcoming to those whose existence is a constant reminder of how weak, cowardly or devious they were. Consequently, absolution is undersired.

Ah! So many inexplicable people make sense then.

About Aditi Wardhan Singh

I'm a mom living in Virginia, enjoying chronicling my various escapes with the kids and around the kitchen. I believe being a mom involves a balance of holding on and letting go. And since being a mom is a 24/7 job, cooking though essential, needs to be as easy as can be. So peruse my blog for various experiences in parenting and experiments in cooking.
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3 thoughts on “The Wronged

  1. Absolution as an absolutely 'undersired' abstraction begs the question- "does asking someone to alliterate anticipate abstruse antipathy?"

    -V for Vendakka!

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