God and Karma

I’ve lived almost three decades now and yet when I talk to my mother who has two more decades on me, we have disagreements over what life means and what’s the best way to resolve a situation – hypothetical or real.

Just yesterday, we were conversing and my mother says that all that happens is with the will of God. Our decisions, actions, every minute event that occurs is coz that is what God wants.

Now I honestly do not agree with that. For that pretty much absolves people of taking responsibility for anything that they do or happens in their life. It’s like saying, no matter what you’ve done, you aren’t responsible. Besides, where is the fun in living life to the fullest, if it’s the life you would be having no matter what decision you take.

My belief is that life is in our hands. God isn’t so cruel as to make you miserable on purpose or make you do bad things but yes, He defines certain paths in your life. The one you take leads you to the next one in the matrix and so on. While this may be a lot of work for Him, I believe that’s where free will comes into the picture.

To which my dear mother responded, ” Then why is it that bad things happen to good people or people with good intentions cannot go through on their desires ? “

I admit that stumped me for a minute but I came back with the logic that, “The intention is what matters. The action may or may not come to fruitation because our lives our not our own. They are connected to a number of individuals whose paths and intentions influence ours.

Thus, supposing you ( my mother ) wants to go to the temple, but father is busy at work and no one can pick you up and give you a ride then that doesn’t mean you didn’t want to go. That just means that things didn’t work out. ”

Now lots of people out there might find flaws with my point of view but then it’s a work in progress. I just felt I should put it out there to see the reaction it Might generate. 🙂